14 November, 2016

Walking Away


It seems to be the common thing in relationships in the modern day that they come around get what they need and then leave you hanging without so much as a goodbye because it's all part of the games that they play. The worst part about someone leaving is the not knowing, not knowing what happenendd, why they left, if they're ever coming back. So you call them hoping that they will answer and tell you what you need and come back to you because you got attached to them when they didn't even let you in. 


If someone in your life constantly leaves you without letting you know then let them go, don't call them, don't text, them give them nothing, see if they come back. It may hurt you a hell of a lot to go on for a while like it doesn't bother you, like it's not slowly breaking your heart. They get used to you running back to them, because to them it's just a game they know that they can count on you when they need you because they have you hooked. But what about when you need them? You don't deserve to give your everything to someone who won't even give you the time of day. You deserve someone who is willing to give the moon, the stars, and everything they have just to make you smile. 

The rest of your life starts with letting go of the things that were never truly yours because they don't deserve someone like you, sometimes a goodbye is what you need to really move on because while you spend your days pining for someone who's busy giving everyone but you there time, there's someone else who needs someone like you and is ready to give you the chance at happiness that you deserve. Even if it's just a friend to be on your side, you don't need people in your life that dont want you in there's. 

Walking away from someone can be really difficult, especially if you've been with them for so long. If you've been with someone a week, a month, or even a couple of years if you have given them everything you have and they still walk away then let them go. Letting them go may be hard, but by letting them walk back in your life over and over again is like reopening a close wound, it hurts a lot more the second time round.



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