Compromise Moves Us Along

There's a saying that goes something like "what you see isn't always what you get" I’ve never really understood what that meant until now.

As we grow up we create this little bubble that we exist in and we become blind to what’s really going on. We never really pay much attention to what’s going on in the real world. If it doesn't appear in the glossy magazines or all over Facebook and twitter no really notices.

 The majority of people are blind to the events that are happening right before their eyes. We don't see the demons that are lurking around in the background, but the thing is we can only run from them for so long, because sooner or later there going to catch up.

No matter what the secret is one day it will be uncovered because that's the thing about the skeletons of the past is that they have a tendency to come back and haunt us when we least expect them. In time everything catches up and the sequence of events continues. what people forget is that ever thing we do causes a knock on effect, one thing leads to another until it creates something that is far too complex to handle.

We try to leave the bad things behind us and that doesn't always work out because there are something that we can't just ignore because or problems don't just go away. At the same time, there isn't always a way to fix things but we can find closure even in the hardest times. 

For example when people hurt us we can't alway forget what they have done to us and go back to how things were, but we can heal and move forward with the rest of our lives.