People are constantly fighting wars, sometimes against themselves, these are the harder ones to win. It's these wars that are the hardest as there is simply no escape, not even inside your own head. People think you're crazy because they don't know what its like to be you, to see the world from your perspective. From the outside, everything may look perfect but inside its a completely different story.
Whenever people begin to talk about what's going on inside their head or what they are feeling, people tend to just shut it down ignore it and move on because they don't know how to handle it. People know how to fix broken bones, but they're not so sure how to help heal broken minds.
Society has a way of trying to tell people what they should think, how they should feel, and the way they should look. So instead of seeing ourselves as individual people, we begin to see ourselves as numbers: the number of the scale begins to define our beauty, the percentage we get on the test defines how smart we are, the number of followers we have on social media defines our value, but none of that is true. We are more than a number, we are worth so much more.
Inside of you, there is a power, there are ideas and thoughts that no one has ever thought of, and strength and courage that some could never imagine having. don't forget that power and don't ever give up on it. Society will try and break you can shape you in a way that it sees fit, but society is just so ugly. Don't let it change you change it because we are part of society and have the power to make the change and help those fighting wars by showing them that they are not alone.
31 October, 2016
24 October, 2016
Love Doesn't Let Go
At some point, someone said "if you love something let it go" that to me just doesn't make sense why let it go if you claim to love it so much? Letting go is what people seem to be good at, when things get a little tougher they tend to just walk away, how can you honestly just leave if you love someone?
11 October, 2016
YouTube
This one is a very quick post just to say that I have finally kick-started my YouTube channel, this has been something I have wanted to start doing for a while. I have posted a couple of videos on my blog before but some of you have emailed me telling me that you have had difficulties seeing them, so following that and a couple of words of encouragement from a friend I have very excited to say that I have finally uploaded my first video which is my autumn makeup look which I will link below for you.
If you have any suggestion as to what kind of videos you would like to see then please leave me a comment, if you like the autumn tutorial then people Like and comment and don't forget to subscribe while you are over there so you don't miss out on any videos! I hope you enjoy
If you have any suggestion as to what kind of videos you would like to see then please leave me a comment, if you like the autumn tutorial then people Like and comment and don't forget to subscribe while you are over there so you don't miss out on any videos! I hope you enjoy
10 October, 2016
Change
Like most people I'm not a big fan of change, especially the kind that up skittles everything; in some cases, I like things to be routine, I like them to be constant. Ironically the only thing that we can guarantee is constant is change.
We spend our lives creating these routines that we feel comfortable in, like waking up, having breakfast, brushing our teeth etc. and if we can't complete these tasks how we like to then it sets us off. For example, if someone breaks my morning routine I tend not to be a happy person, but things can't always be the same things are constantly changing, merging, evolving. It's kind of like when we say things like 'people don't change' or someone tells you that you've changed, it's part of our existence we are changing constantly. Simple changes can pass by without us even noticing but there are some changes which can shift the ground where standing on.
04 October, 2016
This Queen Doesn't Need A King
Having a group of friends is great, then they all get in relationships and are talking about all the cute things they've done and you're just sat there as single as can be. It feels pretty shit at that time, I know that a lot of you based on your emails are in the same situation, but it's alright. There's nothing wrong with being single, there's nothing wrong with being old and single, there's especially nothing wrong with being 16 and single. Trust me you have a lot of things ahead of you at that point so don't even worry about the hassle of attempting to find a boyfriend.
Although people seem to think that because you're of a certain age you automatically means you have to be settled down... wrong!
You don't have to be anything. I mean right now most of my friends are engaged or having babies, then there's just me, I still live at home with my parents and I'm not in a relationship, and I spend most of my time with my dog. My dog loves me and to me, that's more important than some fuckboy who's just going to screw you around for a while. I mean sure relationships are great, I've learned that you can't force them they either work or they don't so if your single and your friend's loving relationships are starting to peeve you off a little just remember that a queen doesn't necessarily need a king, forget the princess bull you are a queen and you run your own shit. I also stumbled across this little beauty on Facebook so don't even worry about being single...
Eventually, you might meet somebody and fall in love but just take your time, great things happen in the blink of an eye.
Although people seem to think that because you're of a certain age you automatically means you have to be settled down... wrong!
You don't have to be anything. I mean right now most of my friends are engaged or having babies, then there's just me, I still live at home with my parents and I'm not in a relationship, and I spend most of my time with my dog. My dog loves me and to me, that's more important than some fuckboy who's just going to screw you around for a while. I mean sure relationships are great, I've learned that you can't force them they either work or they don't so if your single and your friend's loving relationships are starting to peeve you off a little just remember that a queen doesn't necessarily need a king, forget the princess bull you are a queen and you run your own shit. I also stumbled across this little beauty on Facebook so don't even worry about being single...
Eventually, you might meet somebody and fall in love but just take your time, great things happen in the blink of an eye.
01 October, 2016
September Favourites
It's the first of October! this makes me very happy as it means that Halloween is just around the corner and I simply love autumn time, I mean I love summer but Autumn is my season because it gets colder which means I get to break out the jumpers, and now have an excuse to spend nights bundled up watching Netflix. Besides the fact that we're in my favourite season let's get on with my favourite things.
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